How to Respond When Asked 'Are You Wearing A Wig?'

Being asked, "Are you wearing a wig?" can be an uncomfortable experience, especially when it comes unexpectedly. Here, we offer five thoughtful and empowering ways you could respond to this question, ensuring you feel comfortable and in control, whether you are a beginner or are an experienced wearer.

At Mandeville London, we understand that wigs are more than just a solution for hair loss—they are an extension of your personality and a source of confidence. Our bespoke real human hair wigs, crafted from the finest European hair, offer a natural look that blends seamlessly with your style, from the hairline to the nape of the neck.

When wearing a Mandeville wig, rest assured that no one will know you are wearing a wig. However, as fabulously natural as our new hair may look, having a prepared answer to this question can help you to feel more confident when going about your daily life.

It's important to understand that there's no incorrect way to respond to such a personal question. Unless you feel comfortable sharing with someone close to you, you do not owe anyone intimate information about your hair or hair loss, so don't feel pressure to share more than you'd like.

So, how could you potentially answer if people ask if you're wearing a wig?

1. 'Yes, it is my hair. Isn't it nice?'

When someone asks, "Is that your natural hair?" respond with pride. Your wig is a part of you, chosen with care to reflect your style and personality. A confident reply like, "Yes, it is my own hair. Isn't it nice?" asserts ownership and can turn a potentially awkward moment into a positive one. Remember, your wig is yours—just like any other personal item, whether you're wearing a wig over natural hair or not.

2. 'Why do you ask?'

For friends or family, this question might come from a place of curiosity or admiration. Asking them, "Why do you ask?" can provide insight into their intentions. Often, people are intrigued by how natural your wig looks, from the parting to the ponytail, or they may have noticed a change in your appearance. This approach opens up a dialogue, allowing you to share your experience if you feel comfortable. For colleagues or strangers, responding 'why do you ask?' challenges them to consider why they feel owed any personal information about you that you're not openly up front about, shifting any awkwardness back onto them.

3. 'Yes, I am, and here's why…'

Feel free to share your story if you're comfortable. Responding with, "Yes, I am, and here's why…" can be a powerful way to discuss how your wig enhances your life, whether you're a beginner learning how to wear a wig or a seasoned wearer. You can talk about the confidence and security wearing a human hair wig brings you. However, you are not obligated to explain your personal reasons unless you choose to. Remember, your story is yours to share or keep private.

4. 'Why, that's a sensitive question…'

Some may not realise that asking about your wig can be a sensitive topic. It can be more commonplace to ask about someones hair extensions, lashes or other additions to your appearance, so people may be unaware that asking about your wig crosses a line. A gentle reminder, such as "Why, that's a sensitive question…", can make them aware of the personal nature of their inquiry. Suggesting they offer a compliment instead, like "I love your hair!" can shift the conversation to a more positive tone, whether you're wearing lace front wigs, a full wig or a half wig.

5. 'What wig?'

For those who have no reason to know about your personal choice, a playful response like "What wig?" can deflect the question and highlight its rudeness. This can lead to a light-hearted moment or make the asker realise their mistake. Either way, it maintains your privacy and control over the conversation.

Be Brave and Proud: Embrace Your Wig

Choosing to wear wigs is a personal decision that requires bravery and should never be a source of shame. Everyone faces their own challenges, and wearing a wig can be a powerful way to cope with and overcome these issues. Here at Mandeville, we can help you choose and style your wig so it fits you perfectly, no matter the reason you need/choose to wear one.

Wear Wigs For Medical Conditions

Many people wear wigs while undergoing chemotherapy, dealing with alopecia, or facing other medical conditions that affect hair growth. This choice is about maintaining a sense of normalcy and confidence during a difficult time. There is no shame in choosing a half wig or a full natural hair wig to help you feel like yourself again.

Wearing Wigs - Empowerment Through Choice

Wearing human hair wigs allows you to take control of your appearance and feel empowered. It's a way to express your personality and style, regardless of the underlying reason for hair loss. Embrace your choice and be proud of the strength it takes to be proactive and make that decision.

No One is Alone

Remember, you are not alone in your journey. Many people choose to wear human hair wigs for various reasons, and there are supportive communities ready to share experiences and offer encouragement. At Mandeville London, we celebrate the bravery of our clients who choose to wear wigs and stand by them in their journey. We help you with advice and show you every step, so if you have questions such as "how to fit a wig", "how to apply a wig", "how to style a wig" and more, you won't be looking for answers after our consultation. You can also find more information by viewing our tutorials, where we show you tips for brushing, styling, washing and storing your wig.

Additional Tips for Human Hair Wig Wearers

People might notice a wig for six main reasons:

1. it looks too perfect (or is too perfect to look like real hair, most common with synthetic wigs)
2. has too much volume
3. you seem cautious about moving your head
4. it has been positioned incorrectly or doesn't fit well
5. it has significant wear and tear and the foundation or wig cap has become visible
6. it has an unnaturally straight or thick hairline

At Mandeville, we help you embrace your wig, move confidently, and not let the fear of questions hold you back. Our wigs look just like your real hair; you will even forget that you are wearing a wig.

At Mandeville London, we design our wigs to enhance your natural beauty and boost your confidence. Visit our Tutorials page for more tips and advice from our team of professionals. Also, see our customer stories to discover how we helped others regain their confidence with our wigs. If you have any questions, our friendly team is here to help. Feeling inspired? Explore our stunning wig collections today and find your perfect match.

Frequently Asked Questions:

1. Why would someone ask if I am using a wig?

People may inquire if you are wearing a wig out of curiosity or genuine admiration. They might have noticed a change in your hairstyle or be impressed by the natural appearance of your wig. It’s important to remember that most people are not trying to be rude; they are simply interested, though this does not allow them the right to overstep your boundaries.

2. How should I handle it if someone asks if I'm wearing a wig?

Though you never owe anyone an explanation, there are several ways to respond to this question, depending on your comfort level and the situation. Here are some suggested replies and explanations:

• "Yes, it is my hair. Isn’t it fabulous?"
• This response is confident and assertive. It emphasises that the wig is part of your identity and you are proud of it. It can help shift the focus to a positive conversation about your appearance.
• "Why do you ask?"
• This encourages the other person to explain their question. It can help you understand their intentions and provide an opportunity to educate them about wigs if they are genuinely curious.
• "Yes, I am, and here’s why…"
• This response is open and informative. It lets you share your story or reasons for wearing a wig if you feel comfortable. It can foster understanding and empathy from the other person.
• "Why, that’s a sensitive question…"
• This gently reminds the other person that their question might be too personal. It helps set boundaries and can make them aware that such inquiries can be delicate and should be approached with sensitivity.
• "What wig?"
• This playful response can deflect the question and put the focus back on the other person. It can help diffuse any potential awkwardness and highlight the natural appearance of your wig, making the other person realise their question might have been unnecessary.

3. Why do some people prefer not to admit they have a wig?

There are several reasons why people might choose not to disclose that they are wearing a wig:

• Privacy: Wigs are a personal choice and some prefer to keep it private. Hair loss can be an affect of many medical concerns that the individual may wish not to share.
• Stigma: Despite growing awareness, there can still be misconceptions about wearing wigs for both men and women.
• Natural Appearance: Many people take pride in how natural their wigs look and want to maintain that illusion.
• Confidence: Revealing this deeply personal information might make some feel vulnerable or less confident.

4. Is it okay to ask someone if they are using a wig?

While it can be a natural curiosity, asking someone if they do wear one can be sensitive and personal. It's better to offer a compliment like "I love your hair!" which opens up a positive conversation which allows someone to offer up personal information if they'd like to share, without the stress of a direct question.

5. What are the benefits of wearing a wig made from natural European hair?

Natural European hair wigs offer several advantages:

• Authentic Look: They provide a natural and seamless appearance.
• Quality: They are made from the finest quality hair, ensuring durability and longevity.
• Styling: Natural hair wigs can be styled just like your own natural hair, allowing for greater versatility.

6. What if I have sensitive skin?

Our wigs are designed with comfort in mind, featuring soft, lightweight and breathable wig caps suitable for sensitive skin or an irritated scalp. If you have specific concerns, our expert team at Mandeville London can assist you in finding the perfect wig.

7. Can I customise my wig?

Absolutely! At Mandeville London, we offer bespoke wigs tailored to your specific needs. From colour and style to fit and finish, our Made to Measure wigs are customised to enhance your natural beauty and provide you with the upmost confidence.

For further assistance, feel free to contact our expert team at Mandeville London. We are here to support you every step of the way in your wig-wearing journey.

Want A Wig Just Like Your Own Hair?

Ready to embrace your new look with natural hair? Browse Mandeville London's exclusive collection of half wigs, full wigs and frontal hairpieces and find the one that speaks to you. First time wearing wigs? Our expert team can personalise the your Mandeville wig just like a hairdresser and will give you advice and support to protect your hair health and keep the wig in perfect condition for longer with our range of accessories.

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